2010 Starting slowly

First of all,
I want to wish a happy and crispy newyear to all the followers of this BDSM-blog.

Second… the latest updates on the castle…

To be honoust,
things have been slow around the Seasons hollidays,
adding some travels and the (darn)cold and humid weather…
Yep, not being done.

And I know that it’s a luxury that we are not snowed in like in the rest of Spain (don’t forget, it’s not only sun and sangria, it’s also skying and skating!),
but to Me this cold dries My skin and hurts in My young bones.
And we do not want any hurt for the Mistress,
DO WE NOW?

Published in:  on January 13, 2010 at 12:18 Leave a Comment
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BDSM Santa did come!

The vintage BDSM toys I ordered (see post a few weeks ago, from bondagedominationspain,) have arrived!

So it was a bit of Santa’s holy night feeling. (Saint Nicolas for Me, as I come from a lovely little country where they heavily celebrate “Sinterklaas” every 5th of December).

I was terribly exited unpacking the box, as one never really knows what one is buying with 2nd hand goods from the internet.

And the sellers had made it even more spectacular, wrapping everything carefully in white gift/filling paper.

Mistress Nicole unpacking bondagedominationspain-goods..

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Slave joris, who had been in charge of ordering and receiving the goods, was very nervous too.

So nervous, that after litting the fire I caged him in the adjoining room. That way I had all the tranquility of the world inspecting the new bdsm-toys.

Everything I had ordered was there, slave had had the permission to add an item to this order and his caprice was also there.

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As usual, slaves don’t think with their heads (and I leave it up to the reader to imagine with what they do think) and he had ordered a mouth-piece. A kind of obligating opening mouth bracket.

Nice gadget, but … second hand??????

How stupid could he be??????

That piece was stained, dirty and over-used, even so he insisted in being abused with it!

Whatever happened with Sane and Safe??? (apart from consensuated)

….Sigh….

The Dommes have to be ALWAYS alert and think clear!

The rest of the gear resulted to be in better state (luckily). The spreader bar needs maybe a bit of paint,

the leather cuffs and hoods need a lot of love to clean it, sterilize (as far as possible) and free it from the fungus.

On the other hand, some items were as if they were brand-new! Such as the very uncomfortable hight-collar. I love that thing! That made it all worth it.

And the mouth-piece? That goes on the wall, and will do a great job there as scary ornament.
Published in:  on December 16, 2009 at 11:55 Leave a Comment
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Progression in the BDSM-castle

Sometimes it helps when a Mistress gets DEMANDING!

The whole dungeon floor got cleaned up,
all the none-usable pieces that were apparently kept there for “you-never-know-if-we-might-need-it-in-the-future” are chopped out and the new craftsslave is doing a good job.
In his own,
very….. German, style. annoyingly thorough, that is.

But I have to give it to him: stuff gets done.
Such as the spanking-horse. Yes, believe it or not, the leather is finally adjusted to it!

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And another photo of an achievement:
the hanging cage WITH the door.

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Now it’s just waiting for Santa to come down for Christmas and lock him in there to have an evening of good fun! haha

Published in:  on December 9, 2009 at 14:12 Leave a Comment
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Interesting BDSMyard-sale…. making Me doubt

It has come to My ears some time ago that a well stocked dungeon in the Valencian community has closed it doors.

This means that they are offering their 2nd hand stuff. They promise that it is only slightly used…

So I dived into their web:

http://www.bondagedominationspain.com/
to see what they had to offer, and to be honest, I am amazed about the quantity of toys, clothes, furniture and other leather-gear and bdsm bits&pieces they have.

That bdsmdungeon must have been so well equipped.
A pity that this never showed on their web,
if it would have I would definitely have payed a (work)visit to their realm.

Prices are absolutely amazing, and can only I hope that the quality will be good!

Another bdsmstudio that has shut down is the one Mistress Elle used to run down in Marbella.
Her quitting the scene is a great loss,
and if you happen to read this, gorgeous: I will miss your presence and “savour faire”.
I can strongly recommend her farewell letter, stated on her webpage….

http://www.queendom.es/indexEng.html
it is, as was very usual in her, so well stated, and I recognize the hardship that we, professional Dominatrixes encounter.
Elle’s queendom was a small, but very exquisite BDSM-fantasyland. It was very stylish and elegant, much like herself…

These 2 places shutting down is making Me think: AM I DOING THE RIGHT THING???

Taking charge of what needs to be done in My bdsm-studio.

After coming back from that nice fetishparty in Switzerland,
I found Myself with the cruel reality of all the work that waited for the new boys piled up
in a disastrous manner of a bdsm-jungle of finished bdsmfurniture, half-finished bdsm furniture, in-proyect-of-becoming-half-finished bdsmfurniture and
I-want-to-be-a-part-of-some-kind-of-bdsm-furniture-but-right-now-I-am-nothing-but-a-piece-of-wood parts.


So time to take charge!
And I cannot be there all the time, to hold their little hands.

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(My life is very dynamic and somebody here has to make an income, right?)

So I have dedicated myself making manually a “list of things to do”, and after specifically explaining every item on the list to them, I have hanged it as a ready available reference in the hall
which one enters when getting up the stairs from the billardroom into the dungeon.bdsm dungeon hall
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My drawing-experience came really at hand here.
(Gosh, a Domme really has to be an all-rounder to survive and prosper here in Spain)

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    Now the only thing I hope is that they will actually work when I am not there to supervise, and that they will get along with each other!!!

     

Visiting the Secrets-Nights 2009 in the Bundner Berge

This weekend I will be resting from My duties and obligations while visiting and (very) actively enjoying Myself at the event: Secret Nights organised by Erotopia.

secret bdsm and fetish partyErotopia is a bdsm and fetish parties organizer, which has been doing this for quite a few years now and it’s not My first time to attend one of their parties.

For this weekend they are using a 4 stars hotel up in the Swiss mountains as the venue. I hope it is going to be to as splendidly redecorated as the other “regular venues” of the other Bdsm&fetish parties of theirs.

One of the reasons of Me getting through all the trouble of upgrading My castle is My interest in these kind of escapades. It is just so lovely to meet mind-liked people and share their interests, knowledge and precious moments!

We have already spoken of the possibility of organizing one of these supreme BDSM and fetish weekends here in Barcelona BDSMcastle where we are going to be so well prepared for extended bdsmsessions and the interest is mutual.

But that will be somewhere spring/summer next year,

as the humidity and the freshness (it’s still not really cold, remember that we are in Spain) are gaining terrain these days and the 2 chimneys have been lit almost daily now for My comfort.

For more information on the Bdsm and Fetish parties: www.utopia-fetish.ch

Selfish slave gets spanking in the castle court.

As the title shows,
the making of My Femdom realm here in Spain is facing its ups and downs…
The new downer: one of My boys disappeared.
Or rather: he didn’t appear on his duty anymore. With no obvious reason… for Me.

But I got a feeling the other boys have something to do with it.

Especially after that little note I found posted on the back-board of My “little BDSM bits and pieces”cubboard. The one I have posted here on the web a few weeks ago. The one which says: “you will be whipped”.

My guess is there has been some bad vibes between a few of them…
But instead of opening it up to Me, their Mistress, they apparently have tried to keep it within them!
For Me this slave is a big loss, as he was a good carpenter, young and easily burnt, but a good craftsman!

Therefore I am looking for a new one,
and meanwhile the slave I hold responsable for this terrible loss has got his punishment.

Some good hard corporal punishment open and publicly in the castle court and has been dismissed until further notice. That will learn him not to put his interests before Mine.

bdsm spanking in Sinistrycastle, Spainmen in pain, spain

The Sinistrycastle already made it into the BDSM-magazines!

This month,
in the Massad, which is the longest existing BDSMmagazine of Holland, Belgium and Luxemburg,
there is a whole pagefull photo featured of Me, Mistress Nicole van Kuppeck in front of My Sinistrycastle!

This photo is published along the text that was revised by Jan Lindgren.
The text is about the experiences of this summers’ Other World Kindom celebration. And it is written by several BDSM-mistresses, professional Dominas and life-stylers who visited that celebration last agost . My testimonial is also added there.

Therefor Jan asked me for photos taken there,
but I didn’t make shoot any official photos or videos during my stay there in the Tech Republic,
as I was there just to enjoy one of My slaves 24/7…. well, 24/4 as we stayed only 3 nights there on the premises.

And it is highly prohibited to make, let alone publish PRIVATE taken photos of the OWK.
To compensate I send the reporter some other high-resolution photos,
taken by BasicX, My favorite photographer at this moment, stating clearly that these were taken at My future BDSMplayspace.

Unfortunately,
something got lost in translation,
and the photos were published as if they were taken at the OWK!!!massad_243.owk2009.10

By now I got humble apologies of the editor of the Massad and the promise not only to write a small rectification note in the next number,
but also to dedicate a whole section to My dungeon
when it will be ready, up and running.
So that is great news!!!

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If you want to obtain a copy of this historical document, go to: http://www.massad.com

Disaster photo

People can usually not grasp what kind of work has been done on a place until they see “the making of” photos.

But as I don’t want to scare my new blogvisitors away, first a pic of the nice and already finished part of the castle.

This is the stairway that leads from the end of the ground level floor to the 1st floor here in the Sinistrycastle, Barcelona, Spain.
All nicely painted, even some ornamental pieces in the corner. But don’t be mistaken: did you think that that beautiful looking wood was already on the floor???sinistrycastle stairway

No way, that was just bare, broken and ugly tiled floor there.
It was so horrible, I don’t DARE to publish photos about that!

What I do dare to publish?
How about a photo with all the rubbish that has been moved?

Ah, the original cast-iron window-bars stayed, of course!
(I wouldn’t want anybody to escape, you understand?)cleanup_slaves_wanted

My favorite piece… the toilet!

Golden shower, golden rain, toilet training, wc training, champagne  etc etc is a very common practice within BDSM.
And I love to practice it, I do it a lot.
That is why I told my boys to come up with something REALLY sophisticated and nice,
something that goes with my personality and style of the Sinistrycastle.

They came up with a box with a lid on it.
As they had seen it in so many BDSM movies and films.

But, (of course) that didn’t satisfy me,
(why is there no creativity in their heads???)
and I went (with the wooden lid) trough the antique furniture that I have on the premises.
And I found this beautiful shaped and curved chair which fitted the lid perfectly!!!

Of course it is sooo much more work for the guys to transform it into my peeing throne, but it will feel sooo good once it’s ready!

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bdsmtoilet

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Once painted black with shiny details it is going to be

a ROYAL toilet.

(can’t wait to use it!!!!!!)